
Like
most people that have been to Messina, I had passed through
many times but always only to use the ferry services that run
between Villa San Giovanni and Messina, or in other words,
to cross the thin strip of water that separates Sicilia from
the rest of Italy, the rest of Europe, which might as well
be the rest of the world. This visit though, would be different.
I’m coming to see an old friend of mine in her home,
built in a part of Italy that doesn't’t even have the right
to exist.

Rosa
collected me downtown and we zipped around in her little
car, among the traffic that seems more North African than
European, a mad sort of lawlessness that somehow has its
own playbook. The car windows were down and folks discussed
traffic back ups in casual conversational voices. ‘Would
you let me in, we’re late for lunch’. ‘I
would love to but I’m late myself. OK. But just this
once’, and winks are exchanged. Rosa, as I’m
learning all over again, has a real way with men.

As
we approached her home ‘architecture’ as I’ve
come to know it, started to thin. Standard Italian building
materials, uniform bricks, paint and stucco, became rarities.
Cinder blocks. Corrugated metal. Sheets of re-used fibreglass
panels. Exposed mortar and hodgepodge brick. It was a city
built by non-house builders, a shantytown, really, as if
you asked ten-year olds to build forts out of flotsam and
jetsam, just with satellite dishes and hand-made curtains.
And like other communities I’ve visited in other parts of the world (in
Mexico city and Caracas), unless you visit them it’s impossible to
see these as happy places. In reality, everyone I saw was smiling or laughing.
Rosa’s mother Gianna couldn't’t have been more pleased to cook
with me. She was going to show me some typical plates from Messina. Only
that, in her over-enthusiastic zeal, she finished everything long before
I arrived. (We arrived at 11 am, with lunch in this part of the world usually
hitting the table around 2 pm). She was slightly embarrassed by her own
behavior, the way you would after having ripped open a birthday present
when the person that gave it to you was still in the other room.

Rosa
had located a wine that she never even knew existed, a 1999
Faro, the local DOC that I had never had before. It poured
brownish-orange into our goblets, leaving neither of us hopefully.
Her nose twitched and she silently got up and came back with
a pitcher of house wine poured from a re-used water bottle.


‘She used to sit on my shoulder as I cleaned her cage’, Gianna said
as I glanced at the wall. ‘Then one day……. ‘. Her eyes
filled. ‘I left the door open for a week but she never came back’.

We
started with breaded melanzana, crisp and crunchy and deliscous.

The
wine turned out to be extraordinary, still fruity, with an
intriguing taste of pencil lead. At 10 years, few southern
Italian wines would be as good.

The
bread, loaded with sesame seeds was still warm from the local
bakery.

Gianna’s pasta al forno was classic Southern Italian: a factory pasta
sauced with a rich tomato sauce, interspersed with cooked ham, hard-boiled
eggs and peas, topped with a crunchy crust of grated sheep’s milk cheese
and home-made bread crumbs. And again classic to this part of the world, the
dish was served reheated, but just. (Pasta al forno is mom’s ‘Sunday
Roast’ or ‘Mom’s meatloaf’ here in the South, with
all of the same cultural saddlebags. 1) It’s comfort food but with, 2)
Everyone swearing that his or her mother makes the best, but, 3) Most versions
are more alike than different. And, 4) there is the omnipresent irony ‘the
best in the world’, implies wide-sampling from which one could draw an
opinion. The reality is, of course, the opposite, with 5), ‘Best in the
World’ really meaning, ‘the only one I’ve ever tasted, I
just really love it a lot’).
Gianna’s
was excellent.

The
second course was again a page ripped from nearly ever recipe
book from the South.

Le
braciole are little meat rolls, rapped around a thin piece
of cheese, usually with a little parsley and salt and pepper.
They can be simmered baked or pan-seared, or better yet,
simmered in a tomato sauce, which will then be served first
over the pasta.


Gianna
asked me all the questions you’d be asked by women of her generation
from Southern Italy: Don’t I live with my family? Who cooks for me? How
come I’m not married yet? Don’t I want to be married? How often
do I see my family? Who cooks for me? Is it true that I don’t
live with my family? Who cooks
for me again?
I
explained again what I do for a living but that
I always cooked for myself even
when I was a high-school teacher
in Northern Italy. She treated
this comment as if I said that
I preferred to bath in lakes
or that I powered my house with a
mill and a mule: Not with admiration
but a profound sympathy, a widening
of the eyes, a subtle shaking
of the head.

A
gelato truck passed, the driver singing out in dialect. I
understood not a single word but folks came
running from every direction,
not all of them children.

After
lunch Rosa took me around Messina and I begun to see the
city with fresh eyes. The duomo is one of the prettiest in
all of Italy, the bell tower needing to be seen to be believed.

We
walked up a hill engrossed in conversation about the radio
show she does for fun several times a week. We turned to
the Strait of Messina below us, the region of Calabria, stunning,
just across the water. It was where I’d
be headed next.
As
we sat overlooking the shiny sea, something
crossed my mind in the
opposite way it normally
does, that after spending
time with Rosa and her
mother, that they were
not different or special
but just normal and ordinary,
run-of-the-mill, in a way.
And
Southern Italy is such a remarkable and heartbreakingly beautiful
place because of it.
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